This week on HSHSP Episode 134: How to Get a Good College Recommendation Letter. This post is running concurrently on the Ultimate Homeschool Radio Network.
HSHSP Episode 134: How to Get a Good College Recommendation Letter
Even if you don’t have a college-bound teen OR your teen isn’t a senior yet, listen in on this episode. Vicki shares from experience from a couple of decades of writing hundreds of college-recommendation letters (and other favors for folks).
Step 1: Ask.
Don’t command: I need you to do something. Instead: Could you do me a favor? OR Could I impose on you for a favor? Then add: Please.
Step 2: Make it easy for the recommender to write the letter.
Give them a write-up of your accomplishments or special memories you have together that will make a good recommendation story. (Great recommendation stories are based on narratives, not just statements like: Sally is a great student.
Step 3: Provide the resources for sending that information.
If the recommendation is supposed to be a mailed letter, give a self-address, stamped envelope to the recommender. If it is an online recommendation, make sure they have any digital information they need such as what institution will send emails requesting information; whether they are a *recommender*, *teacher*, *advisor*, etc).
Step 4: Don’t be a cranky nag.
If the person is running late, ask if there’s anything you need to do to help.
Step 5: After the favor is done, say thank you.
You never know if you’ll ever need another favor, so leave a feeling of gratitude…don’t burn bridges. Remember, you may need a second favor. If you have been pushy or rude, your recommender may not be happy about helping out again.
Step 6: Return the favor.
This is not the same as buying a favor. It is a way to show appreciation. For instance: Make the *thank you* a written thank you note. Snail mailed. It is a powerful way to show appreciation.
If you had asked a big favor bring some cookies or some other show of appreciation.
Other notes:
- Be sure to ask for the favor with plenty of time.
- Be sure to ask in private (not in front of a bunch of people).
Join Vicki for a quick discussion on asking for college recommendation letters. You’ll enjoy this episode with more information on preparing for college. Also, enjoy these posts!
Here’s a timeline of important things to cover each year in high school to get ready for college and tips for finding scholarships.
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HSHSP Episode 134: How to Get a Good College Recommendation Letter
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